connecting you to you.

we are all capable of more. but we have become fixated on finding external solutions to our internal struggles. this leads you nowhere. the answer to a stronger, healthier, and more capable you always lies within. you just have to be interested and curious enough to find it. i’m here to help.

want honesty? you’ve come to the right place. i’m known for taking a no bs approach to talking about mental health, leadership, and the importance of building resilience in a society that prioritizes comfort and complacency over courage and challenge. i’m not interested in tip-toeing around the truth or mincing words to avoid uncomfortable feelings. if we want to move towards individual growth, a healthier society, and more effective leadership we’ve got to be able to have hard conversations, and the most difficult one you’ll ever have is the raw one you have with yourself about why you’re really stuck.

hey there. i’m dr l.

praise for the coaches collective…

in 2021 i was a regular guest expert on the CNBC show : no retreat. talk about a wild ride.

a new guidebook for parents.

building resilient kids starts with becoming a resilient parent.

as a shrink, i’ve worked with hundreds of children, adolescents, and parents over the last two decades. i have a front-row seat to some of the most disastrous parenting strategies, and in the last five years I’ve watched things go from bad to worse. i've seen parents who leave board meetings to deliver forgotten homework, and others who are not only writing their kids' college essays, but actually fabricating entire stories to appeal to the admissions department. it’s a disaster and it’s time we correct course. 

joe de sena, founder of the global empire that is spartan, and I team up in 10 rules for resilience: mental toughness for families, to provide parents with a guidebook on resilient parenting. need help with your kiddos? don’t we all!